Family Celebration: Ramadhan
Today, I’m going to be talking about my family celebration.
The celebration that I picked is Ramadhan. Ramadhan
is a muslim celebration that most muslims celebrate after they have finished
fasting. My family celebrates it every
year, but there is one specific Ramadhan I’ll never forget.
Ramadhan/ Idul Fitri is very important, fun to my family and
me. It’s because it means that we’ll get to have sleepovers, we can pray and
cook together. We mainly do these things the night before the big celebration.
Since my family is super religious, I never missed a day of Ramadhan and
fasting month. Honestly I don’t mind because I love having Muslim celebrations.
The Ramadhan that stood out as the most memorable was when I was 10 years old
in 2013. It was August, I knew it was a great day. My family and me woke up at
5am. We were getting ready for Sholat Ied, or it could be Ied Pray. Ied is a
pray where Muslims in one area gather and pray together to thank God for giving
us another month of blessing (Ramadhan). My family and me went to a local
mosque that fits about 600-1000 people. It was very crowded but it’s not humid.
People are walking to find their spot. It was very crowded but I thank God that
it’s crowded. That means people haven’t forgotten about Ied. After that, chaos,
we sat down and listened to different people talking about their 30th,
40th even 1st Ramadhan. It was touching because some talk
about their last Ramadhan with their mom. When I came home I saw all my
cousins, aunts, uncles & even my nieces home. I was shocked and very
surprised. They came because it was out first Ramadhan without our grandma. My
grandma passed away in the spring of 2012. It was very hard, that’s why we
decided to get through it together. We sat down and talked about how our
fasting has been. Usually my grandma cooks first Ramadhan but now it’s my aunt.
Her cooking was just as good. Before we eat, we pray to our loved ones. The food
is different every year but this year, we had fried chicken, lungs, soup, beef,
corn and spicy dim sum. I ate it all. Usually after we eat, we all go to out
gradparents and great grandparents grave yard. Its sad, very sad. We all pray
to them and sat we miss them. We go back home and I remember my mom told me
there will be a surprise. I asked her and she said we are going to Bali.
We went to Bali to go visit my mom’s step sister, that by
then would be the age of 42. She passed away just a month after the last
Ramadhan last year.Straight after we showered, we went to the airport. Our
plane was boarding in the afternoon and we were going home at 10:00pm Bali
time. Since after Ramadhan/Idul Fitru is all about grief, not visiting her is
not an option. On the flight to Bali, I remember that me and my cousin played
hide and seek. Our plane was dead empty even though it has a high season month.
It was so fun. We even made one of my uncle’s played with us. We finally
touched down in Bali. It was so bright and hot. We went and called out driver
in Bali to pick us up. On the way to the graveyard, I kept thinking “why is
there a rainbow when it hasn’t rained at all?” I was 10 so I didn’t understand.
I thought it was a sign that my aunt was happy to see me. We finally arrived
and saw her grave. It was so floral that we thought that someone has been here.
Someone had, It was my step cousin. We went and prayed to her. We prayed to her
saying that we ate at Nannys Pavillion. Its an amazing restaurant. We went and
ate her favorite food ever, lasagna. Just after that, I remembered that
Ramadhan was over. I’m glad that I have Ramadhan every year.
That’s my most memorable Ramadhan so far, it was a year full
of sadness and tears but my family are the right people to talk with when I’m
sad. For me, it was memorable because it’s the first Ramadhan without my
grandma. It was very hard, but I got trough it. My family and me never
experience a day of fasting or Ramadhan without my grandma. Even after that
Ramadhan, my family and I had with her. That’s my most memorable celebration,
thank you.